Love is an act of kindness, generosity, compassion, and openness. Action that is controlling, selfish, arrogant and deceitful is not love. Who among us has not been guilty of what love is and what love is not? Both consciously or unconsciously we make the choice. It’s okay that we are imperfect, if within our heart we believe that God is in us, we consciously and willingly repent. Love graciously acknowledges our shortsightedness and we live to tell the story of God’s glory and how we’ve overcome.